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Tell me more. I would argue your marriage is in trouble if you don't recognize how important emotional connection is for its longevity.

• iso1631 4y ago
  The original post claimed that women wanted emotional connections (and also implyed women don't have one night stands) The post then went on to claim that because they want emotional connection they don't get married (thus implying that marriage does not involve emotional connections)
  • upupandup 4y ago
    I think it's mostly men replying in these comments but as a woman: Yes, women do not have sex for purely physical reasons when they have affairs. They form emotional attachments after sex whereas men often do not. If they are able to access sex thanks to contraceptive technology, then the cost of marrying is very high. Are you saying that women shouldn't be having sex like men? Are you saying its not okay for women to be promiscuous?
    • iso1631 4y ago
      No, that's what you're saying. You are claiming that women can't have a nice satisfying fuck without emotional baggage, but men can't have loving relationships of tenderness and emotional connection and it's just a physical act.
      • upupandup 4y ago
        I did not make such claims that when women have affair its not to satiate physical needs. There could be rare cases where women only gets physical satisfaction but its sad to me that there are people who view women and men as equal we are built differently and experience the same thing differently. After all if your mom wanted to get her rocks off she could hire a male prostitute like your dad.