If you conceal information from your partner that they care about then that does make you fundamentally dishonest. If you conceal the fact that you are cheatin

If you conceal information from your partner that they care about then that does make you fundamentally dishonest. If you conceal the fact that you are cheating on your partner, does that make you dishonest? I mean, isn't it just a secret you're keeping from your partner? You write that neither you nor I should dictate what people share with their partners. I agree. I don't care what people share with their partners - that's between them and their partners. I don't think it's good for children to have 24/7 trivial access to hardcore pornography though and so I think we should restrict that and if that restriction changes the balance of what adults disclose with their partners that is up to those adults and their partners to handle. You seem to be advocating for policy based on allowing romantic deception - which is odd. Finally, regarding your credit card company knowing your sexual preferences - I agree that it is a trade off but I don't think your, and others, addiction to pornography necessitates making pornography trivially available to children. If you have a better idea for how to age-restrict pornography I'd be open to it, but the defense that it would make acquiring pornography awkward for adults strikes me as pretty weak.