Yeah, but you have agency and the ability to improve these things as an adult - often you don’t as a kid. It’s still unfairly skewed of course by the initial s

Yeah, but you have agency and the ability to improve these things as an adult - often you don’t as a kid. It’s still unfairly skewed of course by the initial starting point and highly dependent on IQ (or if you don’t like IQ however you consider varied innate ability). Still, all things equal having the agency is better than not.