I've heard that therapists are now taught to limit their use of "why [did|do] you..." questions to patients, because people are likely to instinctively take tho

I've heard that therapists are now taught to limit their use of "why [did|do] you..." questions to patients, because people are likely to instinctively take those as hostile or suspicious. Maybe these questions seem especially personal, and especially likely to bear a subtext of "it doesn't seem like you had a good reason".