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Adulthood for me was a blessing! Finally I got time (I do have much more free time since I started working than when I was studying), money (god bless software
by freedom2099 4y ago
Adulthood for me was a blessing! Finally I got time (I do have much more free time since I started working than when I was studying), money (god bless software engineers salaries) and no stress whatsoever (I was very stressed in high school and university… now work comes so easy that it’s a breeze ). Why would someone not become an adult???
- the_only_law 4y agoWas mixed for me. I spent my whole youth holding out for that autonomy and making sure as soon as I was legally an adult I was culturally an adult. Missed out on a lot for it, but I was desperate, living with people whom I could never get along with. And then, after hats I got what I wanted, and it was great, but over time I realized that was it, this was I had been planning for and now that I got it that's it. Now I've just kinda stagnanted, I ended up well economically, but every other part of my life has faced severe regression, including physical and social health. I have the time, and the resources now, but not the environment.
- freedom2099 4y agoI am sorry to hear that! I was lucky enough to have loving parents with whom I get along very well, I met the love of my life when I was 18 and we have been together ever since (I’m 37yo) and have plenty of friends with whom I spend a lot of quality time!
- the_only_law 4y agoI actually get along with them these days, looking at other relationships they've had change over the years however, it seems that distance should be maintained to maintain a good relationship.