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> My social life dissolved over a period of years in my late thirties... This is extremely common, and if you are a middle aged man or approaching middle age,
by rendall 4y ago
> My social life dissolved over a period of years in my late thirties...
This is extremely common, and if you are a middle aged man or approaching middle age, it is probably happening to you.
If you are a middle-aged man, or even late 20s, it is essential that you make and maintain new friendships. It will seem awkward, but make that effort.
Isolated elderly men is a worldwide social problem [1], which can lead to poor health in the afflicted individuals [2]. It happens because middle-aged men stop making friends like they did in their youth.
[1]https://www.independentage.org/news-media/press-releases/isolation-emerging-crisis-for-older-men https://www.independentage.org/news-media/press-releases/iso...
[2]https://www.nia.nih.gov/news/social-isolation-loneliness-older-people-pose-health-risks https://www.nia.nih.gov/news/social-isolation-loneliness-old...
- FollowingTheDao 4y agoWhen I was living in Italy in the late 80s and one thing I noticed was that the elderly were seamlessly sew into society. I was talking to a middle aged woman about this and she said it was because they know people are more important than money.