i feel like i want something with full egress logging and a community driven filterset. bonus points for making it easy to install a cert on the machines in my

i feel like i want something with full egress logging and a community driven filterset. bonus points for making it easy to install a cert on the machines in my network and capture/inspection of ssl streams. alternatively, some cloud egress point i can vpn to with outbound firewalling/logging/filtering as a service. i don't want to think about it all the time, so either community driven filters or a managed service. basically i'm interested in two things. catching malware on my personal devices and inspecting/defeating software that is gossiping too much about what appears to me to be private.