Eh, gratuitously sweary and inflammatory. Sort of a hypocritical take -- I say this as someone prone to f-bombs myself, but this is a situation where modeling a

Eh, gratuitously sweary and inflammatory. Sort of a hypocritical take -- I say this as someone prone to f-bombs myself, but this is a situation where modeling appropriate behavior would be an appropriate thing to do. You will find assholes everywhere. We all have that potential. Good rules etc can craft a reasonably civil environment anyway. It takes work to foster civility. This is always true. It's just not always obvious.