This, absolutely. Different people have different preferences, and a lot of folks can be surprised at the sheer variety of options out there. People also have

This, absolutely. Different people have different preferences, and a lot of folks can be surprised at the sheer variety of options out there. People also have different preferences about how many, hm, visible? accommodations they like; some like 'em, some don't (me). Would set up a casual meeting with him to go over what he'd prefer, see what works best for the two of you and the company, and go from there. A big part of dignity is feeling like you have some choice in the matter, to echo OP.