I'm sympathetic to this perspective, but the other side of this is that the most enjoyable time in my job is headphones on listening to music in a flow state. I

I'm sympathetic to this perspective, but the other side of this is that the most enjoyable time in my job is headphones on listening to music in a flow state. I've been accused of being a lone wolf on projects. It comes from the selfish place that it's simply more enjoyable. Architecture conversations and code reviews can be fun, but collaborating on a project I could do myself (and especially pairing) often makes my job less enjoyable.