Ultimately - a lot of this advice is decent but only works if you are already on the taller side, physically attractive to begin with (good face), and are willi

Ultimately - a lot of this advice is decent but only works if you are already on the taller side, physically attractive to begin with (good face), and are willing to date down. Generally, if you're not willing to date down - you will have a bad time as a man on these apps. It also depends on what you're looking for - as you're late 30's, you might not be looking for women in their 20's anymore. If you're looking for a childless relationship with a woman in their 30's and 40's - it's not as difficult. The difficulty rises exponentially when you want kids and the woman is in her 20's (even if it's 29.9). This bracket only gets more difficult as you age, not easier. > Be willing to lower standards really low at first- have sex with whoever is interested, even if they are older or a bit overweight. As I built confidence and experience, I gradually was able to date more and more attractive women over time. Also this literally has no effect on your ability to date online. Fucking ugly women isn't going to help you with online dating. It's all about your profile and that's it.