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> if you just know how to talk to people and learn about them! dating is a two way street. If the other party just gives one line answers and does nothing to t

> if you just know how to talk to people and learn about them! dating is a two way street. If the other party just gives one line answers and does nothing to try to move a conversation forward, then it just becomes a job interview. You can't just magically get someone to open up when they refuse. It doesn't help that, at least from a guy's perspective, it seems about 80% of women are really just trying to get instagram followers. Dating also becomes a problem once you finally meet. You will never be more interesting than the smartphone in front of the other person. That person has the entire world in their hand. You can't possibly compete with TikTok or Tinder. You go to the restroom and the other person will go swiping on Tinder. I really do believe humanity is doomed. Like really, actually, doomed. The internet is too much for our monkey brain.

collegeburner 4y ago
> 80% of women are really just trying to get instagram followers. These days they aren't even trying for of subscribers or ig followers, they just straight up put their cashapp in their bio. I have friends who have done that and made 100s of $ before their accounts got banned. And some didn't even get banned. It's also true that a lot of people are on there but not realy to date. Like just to get compliments/validation. Not all girls either, just guys it doesn't work as well. Instead, a lot of us are on there just to look at/rate girls. At parties these days you will sometimes see a group of guys looking around somebody's phone "rating" girls on tinder.