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I'm not surprised when you look at the quality of 20ish year old males. They expect sex to just fall in their laps without doing anything like learning to soci

I'm not surprised when you look at the quality of 20ish year old males. They expect sex to just fall in their laps without doing anything like learning to socialize or being interesting.

nnoitra 4y ago
Speaking about sex to fall in their laps. I remember 2009 or so even sort of cute guys were having girls approach them. Now the looks required for that have basically skyrocketed. Being kinda cute doesn't cut it nowadays. You have to be tall broad shouldered and have a decent career.
- MisterBastahrd 4y ago
  This is why it pays to socialize. Live your entire life behind a keyboard or phone screen and you are giving people objective reasons to dismiss you out of hand. Most people do not want to live with shut-ins. Tinder is a dating tool, not a replacement for socialization.
annyeonghada 4y ago
Have you ever questioned if 20 years old females are as desirable as they think they are? Because they are not. Pretty handy to make all the fault of "males" while never ask them what desires they have, what they want in the other person while constantly emphasize females' desires. Have we ever question women about their own standard? Are they too high? Are they what men want? Do they bring something on the table or it's the usual "I'm a passive princess: entertain me, jester!", because if it is I prefer porn, it usually doesn't ask to pay for a date.
- MisterBastahrd 4y ago
  Let's not insult the intelligence of literally anyone by suggesting that most women have high standards. Some do. Most just want a warm, presentable body with a steady job and decent hygiene... and most still end up married by age 35. Not dating. Married. And the focus is on men because it's men who are complaining about not being able to find a date while sequestered behind their phone screen.
  - nnoitra 4y ago
    That's exactly what the studies suggest. Go on Tinder and see what you get.
    - MisterBastahrd 4y ago
      The evidence disagrees with you. 27 is the break-even point for male marriage. Not just dating. Not just sex. Marriage.

I'm not surprised when you look at the quality of 20ish year old males. They expect sex to just fall in their laps without doing anything like learning to socialize or being interesting.

nnoitra 4y ago

Speaking about sex to fall in their laps. I remember 2009 or so even sort of cute guys were having girls approach them. Now the looks required for that have basically skyrocketed. Being kinda cute doesn't cut it nowadays. You have to be tall broad shouldered and have a decent career.

MisterBastahrd 4y ago
This is why it pays to socialize. Live your entire life behind a keyboard or phone screen and you are giving people objective reasons to dismiss you out of hand. Most people do not want to live with shut-ins. Tinder is a dating tool, not a replacement for socialization.

annyeonghada 4y ago

Have you ever questioned if 20 years old females are as desirable as they think they are? Because they are not. Pretty handy to make all the fault of "males" while never ask them what desires they have, what they want in the other person while constantly emphasize females' desires. Have we ever question women about their own standard? Are they too high? Are they what men want? Do they bring something on the table or it's the usual "I'm a passive princess: entertain me, jester!", because if it is I prefer porn, it usually doesn't ask to pay for a date.

MisterBastahrd 4y ago
Let's not insult the intelligence of literally anyone by suggesting that most women have high standards. Some do. Most just want a warm, presentable body with a steady job and decent hygiene... and most still end up married by age 35. Not dating. Married. And the focus is on men because it's men who are complaining about not being able to find a date while sequestered behind their phone screen.
- nnoitra 4y ago
  That's exactly what the studies suggest. Go on Tinder and see what you get.
  - MisterBastahrd 4y ago
    The evidence disagrees with you. 27 is the break-even point for male marriage. Not just dating. Not just sex. Marriage.