> I can regularly go on 1-3 dates per week and have managed to keep that consistency pretty much all year. The difficulty for most men is getting those 1-3 dat

> I can regularly go on 1-3 dates per week and have managed to keep that consistency pretty much all year. The difficulty for most men is getting those 1-3 dates per week, not the follow-through. As much as you might want to attribute your success to your charm and conversation, even getting a match per week, let alone enough to turn into 1-3 dates, is the barrier. And anyone who's getting 1-3 dates per week is likely going to be able to find a relationship if they're looking for one after a couple months. Quality of pictures and persona certainly plays a role, but there are immutable traits that apps prioritize that radically reduce the amount of inbound interest. Getting off the apps as suggested in the parent comment is the only real way to deal with that.