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I am willing to approach a woman I find attractive if the situation is appropriate. Unfortunately, most situations you come across attractive women are rarely a
by xwdv 4y ago
I am willing to approach a woman I find attractive if the situation is appropriate. Unfortunately, most situations you come across attractive women are rarely appropriate. You end up having to go to events and things you don’t normally do just to gain exposure to women. It is a miserable reason to participate in these things when your only interest is in the women, not the event or hobby. And often the things you really want to do are of little interest to attractive women.
- shadowgovt 4y agoBack in the day, we used to call participating in new things you might not enjoy on the off chance that you would either learn something or meet somebody interesting "living." I'm not sure when that changed, but the comments in the thread don't suggest to me it changed for the better.
- jbverschoor 4y agoOr you’re just finding an excuse not to approach.. very few situations are inappropriate. “Willing” even sounds that you don’t even really want to.
- ptero 4y ago> You end up having to go to events and things you don’t normally do just to gain exposure to women. That's how it was for a long time. And, IMHO, it was not a bad setup. I certainly would not call it a miserable reason to participate in those events. For example as a youth I went to dances (which, not knowing how to dance felt very uncomfortable), "intellectual" movies and classical concerts (which, for a small-city oaf who only thought about science, were way out of depth), but looking back I think I got a very good return on the time I spent on those.
- xwdv 4y agoMaybe it’s good if you’re just looking to rail some ass but what if you do find someone you like but now they will only be with you if you keep doing those things you don’t care about? Are you supposed to just live your whole life that way. No way. Not sustainable.