Ah yeah those are some good strategies and they're usually how I approach this when it comes up so I think we are on the same page :) It's just tiresome to have

Ah yeah those are some good strategies and they're usually how I approach this when it comes up so I think we are on the same page :) It's just tiresome to have to do, and I feel like in doing so despite being polite and calm I think I'm being thought of as obstinate or a troublemaker. Which is a shame because in fact I'm trying to reduce the uncertainty and chaos and make everyone's lives a bit nicer :) Oh well, like I said it doesn't come up often enough to cause me great stress and I'm experienced enough to sort of handle myself when it does. Just ... I wish it didn't :D