This is incredibly condescending. It’s the equivalent of telling a friend: “no, your arm is still broken” when they get their cast off. I’m genuinely wondering

This is incredibly condescending. It’s the equivalent of telling a friend: “no, your arm is still broken” when they get their cast off. I’m genuinely wondering how you can be so confident. You’re telling someone to follow your universal prescription, and insulting their suggestion taken from person experience. Let alone the fact that you’re arguing against “resiliency” being a positive trait to foster in any human being, regardless of past traumas. Do you at least acknowledge your confidence? You’re telling somebody off for sharing a reasonable mental health approach. And what if I said I completely agreed with GP, on account of my person experience and reconciliation? Not everybody breaks in the same way; why do you then think that putting a person back together must follow your prescription?