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> clever lifestyle … not spending … cheap region This is easy to do alone. Bring a partner into your life and slowly but surely you will be seen as a resource
by jl2718 4y ago
> clever lifestyle … not spending … cheap region
This is easy to do alone. Bring a partner into your life and slowly but surely you will be seen as a resource to be maxed out and consumed.
I know billionaires that share your dream. Do it. Save yourself. Go now.
- jdthedisciple 4y agoI see your point, and form what I observe that often happens. I guess you gotta be able to accurately gauge whether she shares those same underlying values of not wanting to live lavishly with you or not, before you can even think about living together like that.
- compiler-guy 4y agoThere is nothing “surely” about eventually being seen as a resource to be consumed. Statistically, people in long-term committed relationships have more stable incomes, longer lives, and better outcomes than those who don’t [1]. The direction of causality is somewhat unclear, but that such a relationship exists at all is a fairly strong refutation of your claim. Which isn’t to say that all of them work out or that it is always sunshine and rainbows. But there is nothing inevitable about the outcome you claim. It’s actually lower probability. 1. https://docs.iza.org/dp998.pdf https://docs.iza.org/dp998.pdf