The only thing I'm implying is that different people have different values/priorities. My post explicitly states that some people have more family obligations

The only thing I'm implying is that different people have different values/priorities. My post explicitly states that some people have more family obligations than others. That said, friends and family isn't a specific obligation for a set number of hours, that if you get in 30 less minutes one week it all blows up. It's a continuum of possible activities. Everyone needs to make their own choice. It seems silly to criticize someone else for doing a "side project", by implying that it must always be at the cost of friends and family. It's not.