>If you’re genuinely looking for attention from anyone that’ll give it to you, you probably want to do some self-reflection. Not true. The larger you can make

>If you’re genuinely looking for attention from anyone that’ll give it to you, you probably want to do some self-reflection. Not true. The larger you can make the pool the more fish swim in it. And mor sharks. But you get to pick the fish. >Spamming indiscriminately may get you the a few extra internet points, but it doesn’t get you any good matches that you wouldn’t have gotten from being a genuine human person on there. You don't really get to know a person from it's profile. Until you get to chat and meet in person there is still a % that you might like that person. Optimizing for outcomes brings the success here.