It’s not about hookup skill but confidence knowing what you want, being a 3-dimensional person, communicating, dealbreakers, and so on. Being yourself is a goo

It’s not about hookup skill but confidence knowing what you want, being a 3-dimensional person, communicating, dealbreakers, and so on. Being yourself is a good idea- but who are you? What do you really want? What do you need to work on in yourself?