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Thanks for the advice. I've come to realize that posting anything on HN will always amount to some bit of criticism. Also, I agree that you're spot on with yo
by buf 15y ago
Thanks for the advice. I've come to realize that posting anything on HN will always amount to some bit of criticism.
Also, I agree that you're spot on with your idea that there is value in being uncomfortable. I agree so much, in fact, that I wrote a blog article about how being uncomfortable is a great motivator.
It's called, "Please, Make Yourself Uncomfortable."
Here it is:
http://bufr.tumblr.com/post/6768971854/please-make-yourself-uncomfortable http://bufr.tumblr.com/post/6768971854/please-make-yourself-...
- swanson 15y agoThanks for the link, I'll check it out.
- AznHisoka 15y agoI notice a basic difference between men (which most ppl here in HN are) and women is that men's first impulse is to be critical, while women lean towards being supportive... nothing inherently wrong with either approach, both have its merits at certain times... if you're looking for emotional support, absolutely DO NOT go to men. They're horrible and want to suggest solutions, while you just want to be listened to.