He should just use the pronouns people prefer and not call people the N-word, but instead he has to have big sit down conversations where he explains why actual

He should just use the pronouns people prefer and not call people the N-word, but instead he has to have big sit down conversations where he explains why actually it's ok for him to use the N-word and ignore people's pronouns. A bare minimum of consideration of people who are different from you goes an astoundingly far way.