If the main topic of conversation you have with your friends is not how you can better yourself, you need to get new friends. Or, put another way, if you prefe

If the main topic of conversation you have with your friends is not how you can better yourself, you need to get new friends. Or, put another way, if you prefer to read fiction and non-personal non-fiction rather than self-help books you need to get some new books. Why? Because Oprah said so.