When attributes people desire in something are hard to judge, but there are some secondary attributes which are easier to judge, then they often go for the latt

When attributes people desire in something are hard to judge, but there are some secondary attributes which are easier to judge, then they often go for the latter. To at least get "something". The less willing they are to do that, the less willing they are to participate in the first place. There are some really nasty "market for lemons" effects in online dating, and it seems clear to me it really makes things harder for young people. I am not young myself, and have no need for online dating, so this is how it looks to me from the outside. Your repeated dismissal of these experiences in this thread comes off to me as a bit callous.