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I'm guilty of doing everything you've mentioned as well, for the same reasons, but this especially: >I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market cou
by cpsns 4y ago
I'm guilty of doing everything you've mentioned as well, for the same reasons, but this especially:
>I'm afraid to make investments fearing that the market could crash the second I enter, and erase my money, leaving me vulnerable to being homeless or dependent on doing shitty jobs I hate just to stay afloat, so I just hoard cash like an idiot as that makes me feels safe and lets me sleep well at night.
I am terrified I won't have money when I need it, worried it won't be there or accessible. I've learned over time that there is no amount of money in my savings account that can alleviate this.
When I was a kid there was never enough money and disaster was one unexpected bill away. As an adult I know that's not true of my situation now, but I am incapable of getting out of that mindset.
- almost_usual 4y agoIf I were you I’d reach out to a therapist if you haven’t already. It sounds like you’re dealing with anxiety and catastrophic thinking.
- bombcar 4y agoI've found that reducing the "monthly" bills can help - which usually means paying down and off debt entirely. Then consider things as "one time purchases" instead of monthly obligations - buy Disney+ for a year, once, and immediately cancel. Then if something goes wrong, there's no upcoming bill to pay.