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I get four matches a week on average. Converting those matches into dates is the hard part in my opinion. Even when I seem to be connecting and having a good co
by abhaynayar 4y ago
I get four matches a week on average. Converting those matches into dates is the hard part in my opinion. Even when I seem to be connecting and having a good conversation on text, it's always been so difficult to go beyond that.
I don't know, I must be doing something wrong I guess. I wonder what the match to date conversion rate is.
- shnobloos22 4y ago
- bigfudge 4y agoIf you mean descending into mysoginist bile and hate, then yes.
- shnobloos22 4y ago
- abhaynayar 4y ago> these questions Wasn't a question. Learn to read.
- PJDK 4y agoSpeaking as someone now married to a woman he met on tinder. I took the view that if I matched with someone and they replied to a message there was a pretty high chance they were interested in a date, so I would generally just ask on the second or third message. Something like Hi, <basic small talk question based on something in the profile>. Hopefully receive a reply with some kind of conversational hook. <reply to the hook, ask a follow up question>. Would you like to meet for a drink sometime this week, would central Gotham work for you? My number is 123556679 Pretty much everyone is on the site to go on real dates, so best to think of the messages as for organising them. Your mileage may vary, but I'd say this led to a date 80% of the time (assuming the match and reply had already happened)
- abhaynayar 4y agoI've experimented and varied my time to ask out for a date. I've asked out after a few texts after matching, and also after a few days of texting. For me, it has mostly worked out when I gave it more time. Most of my matches have indicated they like to get more familiar before going out with a stranger. But then again, I live in India, so that probably has a lot to do with my experience.