This is the paradox. You want trusted parties to have access, only when you are unable to access it yourself, in cases such as your death, or Alzheimer. But yo

This is the paradox. You want trusted parties to have access, only when you are unable to access it yourself, in cases such as your death, or Alzheimer. But you _don't_ want trusted parties to be able to access this in case you are incapable due to being arrested, or choosing to simply elope.