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The last thing we need as a "civilized society" is to vilify sex positivity. There is nothing dirty (which your comment is implying) about porn. Are there some

The last thing we need as a "civilized society" is to vilify sex positivity. There is nothing dirty (which your comment is implying) about porn. Are there some shady actors in the industry? Sure, but you can say that about any industry. What we need is to stop being ashamed of the human body. I would call Germany very civilized and they don't have as much shame about their body because (like alcohol for European countries) it is normal from a younger age. It isn't uncommon to see bondage and other very sexual things just normally about. Which is a good thing!

HNresetPass 4y ago
People are openly admitting that they prefer to see people exposed to sexuality at younger ages, and to have more vile things normalized like bondage. Society is collapsing and rapture is coming. There is something extremely dirty about turning youth into dopamine slaves and robbing them of their innocence. The bible clearly states in Matthew 18:6 causing a little one to stumble is grounds for drowning
- pajamanaut 4y ago
  > Vile things such as bondage
- nerdjon 4y ago
  Please don't quote Bible quotes at me, all of those were written by racist sexist men a couple hundred years ago as a form of control. I am an Atheist, your bible verses mean nothing to me. Here is the thing, in America we have so much shame about sex. Yet we have an insanely high amount of childhood pregnancies. With schools preaching abstinence, that their desires are wrong, etc. It is no wonder that they have sex. It has been proven time and time again that trying to say something is bad encourages people to use it. We have seen it with sex, drugs, alcohol, etc etc etc. Bondage is not vile! It is just another act of sex/love (either or, depending on the situation) between consenting adult. Youth have sexual desires! It is natural, for fuck sake we go through puberty in our youth. Instead we lie about where babies come from (because apparently "mom and daddy loved each other and you were inside your mom" is too much?).
- yieldcrv 4y ago
  To me, the flaw in your argument is that there were so many times and areas over the last 2,000 years that could just as easily be seen as “the end times, rapture is coming” plague after plague after plague debauchery, currently fringe sexual practices being glorified massive conflicts like, if 1918-1932 wasn't a leading indicator of the rapture what makes you think today is any closer? or is it paradoxically because it didn't happen the last 50 times this is always therefore closer? there are lots of irrelevant prophecies that can have things retroactively attributed to them, which breaks their prophetic capability, hard to prioritize Christian death cults
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globular-toast 4y ago
jwond 4y ago
> It isn't uncommon to see bondage and other very sexual things just normally about. Which is a good thing! I remember when the rhetoric was "consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want in the privacy of their own bedroom", and now it's "people should be able to practice their sexual kinks in public, including in front of children [1], and if you disagree then you are a bigot!" This is what a society heading towards collapse looks like. [1] https://archive.ph/d3URl https://archive.ph/d3URl
- nerdjon 4y ago
  As someone who is gay, anyone who tells me that kink should not belong at pride can fuck right off. Pride is OUR event, I don't give a rats ass about your children showing up. Do not tell ME how to celebrate our history. Trying to remove Kink from pride ignores the history of our community. You are trying to tell me what my sexuality should be. Edit: Sorry for the language but this is a particular hot topic for me and I will not take any of it.
  - robonerd 4y ago
    Wow, I thought jwond was being disingenuous by posting something indefensible but atypical and not representative of the whole. But you jump to unconditionally defend it so quick? Wew, what the fuck.
    - nerdjon 4y ago
      We are not talking about having sex on the streets, that is what Folsom is for. We are talking about being able to represent ourselves. For many of us our Kink identity is part of who we are. For the most part we are talking about wearing some leather, rubber, a harness, a pup hood, maybe using a leash, etc. Things that are mostly tame. Your kid will either likely laugh at it or not think anything of it. If they actually make the connection to sex... they already knew about it. But again. Pride is our event. I don't need you there or care that you are there. This country is seriously fucked with its puritanical views.

HNresetPass 4y ago

People are openly admitting that they prefer to see people exposed to sexuality at younger ages, and to have more vile things normalized like bondage. Society is collapsing and rapture is coming. There is something extremely dirty about turning youth into dopamine slaves and robbing them of their innocence. The bible clearly states in Matthew 18:6 causing a little one to stumble is grounds for drowning

pajamanaut 4y ago
> Vile things such as bondage
nerdjon 4y ago
Please don't quote Bible quotes at me, all of those were written by racist sexist men a couple hundred years ago as a form of control. I am an Atheist, your bible verses mean nothing to me. Here is the thing, in America we have so much shame about sex. Yet we have an insanely high amount of childhood pregnancies. With schools preaching abstinence, that their desires are wrong, etc. It is no wonder that they have sex. It has been proven time and time again that trying to say something is bad encourages people to use it. We have seen it with sex, drugs, alcohol, etc etc etc. Bondage is not vile! It is just another act of sex/love (either or, depending on the situation) between consenting adult. Youth have sexual desires! It is natural, for fuck sake we go through puberty in our youth. Instead we lie about where babies come from (because apparently "mom and daddy loved each other and you were inside your mom" is too much?).
yieldcrv 4y ago
To me, the flaw in your argument is that there were so many times and areas over the last 2,000 years that could just as easily be seen as “the end times, rapture is coming” plague after plague after plague debauchery, currently fringe sexual practices being glorified massive conflicts like, if 1918-1932 wasn't a leading indicator of the rapture what makes you think today is any closer? or is it paradoxically because it didn't happen the last 50 times this is always therefore closer? there are lots of irrelevant prophecies that can have things retroactively attributed to them, which breaks their prophetic capability, hard to prioritize Christian death cults
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globular-toast 4y ago

jwond 4y ago

> It isn't uncommon to see bondage and other very sexual things just normally about. Which is a good thing! I remember when the rhetoric was "consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want in the privacy of their own bedroom", and now it's "people should be able to practice their sexual kinks in public, including in front of children [1], and if you disagree then you are a bigot!" This is what a society heading towards collapse looks like. [1] https://archive.ph/d3URl https://archive.ph/d3URl

nerdjon 4y ago
As someone who is gay, anyone who tells me that kink should not belong at pride can fuck right off. Pride is OUR event, I don't give a rats ass about your children showing up. Do not tell ME how to celebrate our history. Trying to remove Kink from pride ignores the history of our community. You are trying to tell me what my sexuality should be. Edit: Sorry for the language but this is a particular hot topic for me and I will not take any of it.
- robonerd 4y ago
  Wow, I thought jwond was being disingenuous by posting something indefensible but atypical and not representative of the whole. But you jump to unconditionally defend it so quick? Wew, what the fuck.
  - nerdjon 4y ago
    We are not talking about having sex on the streets, that is what Folsom is for. We are talking about being able to represent ourselves. For many of us our Kink identity is part of who we are. For the most part we are talking about wearing some leather, rubber, a harness, a pup hood, maybe using a leash, etc. Things that are mostly tame. Your kid will either likely laugh at it or not think anything of it. If they actually make the connection to sex... they already knew about it. But again. Pride is our event. I don't need you there or care that you are there. This country is seriously fucked with its puritanical views.