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Not sure why this is downvoted? Only for the "If you don't care"-part? I usually check if any preferences were stated or what pronoun a person uses when talking
by archi42 4y ago
Not sure why this is downvoted? Only for the "If you don't care"-part? I usually check if any preferences were stated or what pronoun a person uses when talking about themselves, but use "they/them" as generic fallback as well - and am now irritated if that's wrong and for what reason?
(This would probably be a bit much for a HN comment, so feel free to link)
- unsafecast 4y agoThe "if you don't care part" was meant more as "you're being a dick but I know you'll keep being one anyway, so use this instead to not offend anyone", but the first option works better in a comment. I usually don't like provoking people like that, but I really don't understand the downvotes here.