> If anything, it just creates burnout and resentment in the parents. That's something I find myself reminding my partner of from time to time: whatever we do,

> If anything, it just creates burnout and resentment in the parents. That's something I find myself reminding my partner of from time to time: whatever we do, it must be bearable for us for some time, possibly long. So let's not make a habit of burning ouraelves up; sometimes we need to do less so we can do more.