What's tricky about this stuff is that it's in between a "thing you're allowed to do" and "completely unacceptable". I'd suspect it's close to to former than th

What's tricky about this stuff is that it's in between a "thing you're allowed to do" and "completely unacceptable". I'd suspect it's close to to former than the latter, but even with best efforts it's not zero risk, mostly through the slow accumulation of awkwardness and misinterpreted communication on both sides. Source: Literally none, I got lucky in college