It is always nature AND nurture. Why is this still being debated? Probably because it means we have to look at each person as an individual, and that's hard. It

It is always nature AND nurture. Why is this still being debated? Probably because it means we have to look at each person as an individual, and that's hard. It means we have to be caring, observant, and patient. You know, that thing they call loving? What is true is that parents want "perfect" kids and they have a million people offering a million different ways to accomplish that goal, and that is driving them crazy. That might seem like it is driven by love, but it is driven by fear (FOMO), and that will damage a child.