3 ms·
Immigrated from Brazil to Germany. Almost 8 years after, I don't have any intentions of going back. Sure, I miss family, friends and local food. But living un
by thiago_fm 4y ago
Immigrated from Brazil to Germany.
Almost 8 years after, I don't have any intentions of going back. Sure, I miss family, friends and local food.
But living under the conditions I had to live back then was too harsh. I was born from a very poor family and it was terrible there, even as a software developer. I had to really work my ass off freelancing, making websites from when I was 10 and pay for my university. Things have improved for developers lately there, with many American companies offering very good compensation and now they can afford even to own a propriety. But the bigger problems are still there.
Money isn't everything. It sucks if you live well but there's poverty everywhere, anytime you could be killed. This is Brazil. I lost my uncle when I was 6 because he got shot in the head while working selling sandwiches... leaving behind his 8 year daughter... and it made me realize that nothing is more important than having money, which is to have some peace of mind, and this is what I get here, in Germany.
People here are rude, there are problems as well like xenophobia, being disrespected or not taken seriously by police as a foreigner, even being thought of selling illegal drugs(yet... I work in IT and I'm basically a nerd), eventually some nazi assholes giving me trouble, and of course, the people that don't have any sensibility for people who suffered hardships in their lives because they've got it easy... stuff that I truly dislike that even back home didn't used to happen. BUT it isn't anywhere as bad as it was back home.
Maybe if you are immigrating from a first world country with a nice family with money and so on it might look different. I see a lot of Americans that come here for an adventure and stay only a year or two and move back. Some of them even had their parents busting $200k in a Harvard degree for them. When you have that sort of life, I think it might be hard to appreciate how nice living here is, but if you came out of nowhere and see how there's a social system here and you can start living instead of feeling always in a "survival" state, it feels good.
I guess we all share this rare opportunity which is to be alive and live. But we are all given a very different hand of cards. Moving to Germany changed quite a few cards for me for the better.
No regrets. I can only recommend it.
- lbrito 4y agoHey, I'm also from Brazil. I understand you totally. Brazil is a diverse country and our situations were far different. In my case I was already working remotely for a US company, and living in a small city. My salary was 50% smaller than now, but the jet salary was actually higher due to cost of living and taxes. Life was relaxed. I lived in a small town so not a lot of crime worries. I routinely forgot my kindle outside and it was fine. I only locked up when going to bed. Dm me if you want to chat about this stuff :)