my 2cents: when you feel you are being used, and don't feel you have the disposition to confront your abuser, just start making (intentional) mistakes. If your

my 2cents: when you feel you are being used, and don't feel you have the disposition to confront your abuser, just start making (intentional) mistakes. If your "mistakes" cause enough trouble to the abuser, (s)he will leave you alone. it's even fun to watch them suffering.