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A parents job is to offer comfort, support, and, yes, to teach the child what they feel they should know. A lot of people, this forum not excluded, have a defi
by poppysan 15y ago
A parents job is to offer comfort, support, and, yes, to teach the child what they feel they should know. A lot of people, this forum not excluded, have a definitive view of parenting, and if someone strays outside of that view then its not right.
For instance, I am raising my oldest with the same tenderness and security that most parents have to offer, but I choose to be strict with education. As a result he is 3 and can read, write, do mathematics, and understand higher-level concepts than his peers. He still loves power rangers and playing outside, but he also feels good when he learns something new and receives the praise of his parents, teachers, and friends.
But when he was about 1.5 I posted a thread asking for suggestions for raising an advanced child and was demonized. My view - which is just one view, is that the more you can teach a child (socially, academically, creatively) the better.
- bmj 15y agoAre you going to continue to home school (I'm assuming that's what you are doing now) your child once he reaches "school age?" Just curious. I agree that most parents believe what they do is "right," and if you don't do that, you are "wrong." To a certain degree, that's human nature (particularly with a subject like children), and if we didn't think our particular parenting method wasn't a great idea, why would we do it? Demonizing someone for a differing view, however, isn't the best way to express this.