Be very clear in written form that you do not want to resign from your position and would prefer to relocate in January 2023 as that is the best time for you an

Be very clear in written form that you do not want to resign from your position and would prefer to relocate in January 2023 as that is the best time for you and your family. If they reply back that this is not possible then ask HR about severance as part of your termination and layoff process. Use all these terms in written form to make sure it is documented and very clear where you stand. Speaking as someone who worked for Tesla before they will absolutely ghost you if you give them an inch to do so. Make sure you have your contacts and e-mails properly documented and stay in constant communication.