I came here to say Germany as well. But so many others with so much more experience in Germany than me have chimed in. It’s pretty amazing how near universal th

I came here to say Germany as well. But so many others with so much more experience in Germany than me have chimed in. It’s pretty amazing how near universal the response has been. I’m curious how the answers would change if we shifted some of the variables. What if the asker’s Bavarian parents were elderly and less than the ideal support grandparents? What if it were his parents living San Diego that were the eager kid helpers? What if the family support situation was more “average” on bot sides, but located in either Bavaria or a less metrotech area of the US, say Spokane WA?