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Been there.. and still am somewhat. I was a dev - got a lead position at a disorganized company. Product was very late on the market because of the management (
by Arcanum-XIII 4y ago
Been there.. and still am somewhat. I was a dev - got a lead position at a disorganized company. Product was very late on the market because of the management (no clear command chain, no clear end goal, multiple tooling…). I pushed the app on the market but very fast got burn by the environment. That with 2 young children lead to a disastrous situation…
I don’t think develop anymore, nearly 5 year later. I’ve switched to management, to try to do better. At my current job, I can’t so… I quit for something else, 6 month after beginning there.
I’m choosing my battles. My job is only there to pay for whatever my family and me need - nothing more.
I’m lucky my current job is ending now. I´d probably be burned out otherwise. I feel like you can never fully heal… but you can learn :)
Now my end goal is to definitely quit IT and find something nice to do. But let’s be honest: what’s gonna me pay that much?
- dirtybirdnj 4y ago> I feel like you can never fully heal... but you can learn I saw a graphic about "moving on" and loss / grief. It showed that most people think of you as jar and grief is a ball that shrinks over time. The reality is the grief never goes away, its with you forever. You grow around it. Your comment really hit me in that one. https://whatsyourgrief.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/growing-around-grief-the-ralph-site-1024x1024.jpg https://whatsyourgrief.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/growin...