100% this. Most people are cool with the rules I set down for messaging me. Basically "i will get back to you but not necessarily right away". However, some

100% this. Most people are cool with the rules I set down for messaging me. Basically "i will get back to you but not necessarily right away". However, some people seem to expect that you usually have your phone on you and they sent you a message you better respond ASAP no mater what. They can not comprehend that I have effectively turned my notification tones off (light buzz). I get too many messages to have that be useful anymore and I am not constantly fiddling with my phone...