Thank you both for this. It turns my world view upside down, but that's good. I've been seeing it as the universe tearing us down this whole time. Really it'

Thank you both for this. It turns my world view upside down, but that's good. I've been seeing it as the universe tearing us down this whole time. Really it's us tearing the universe down. Somehow this is much more comforting to me. Thank you!