I mean technically all the violence in any video game comes down to pushing a button labeled "fight" when you remove several layers of complexity and abstractio

I mean technically all the violence in any video game comes down to pushing a button labeled "fight" when you remove several layers of complexity and abstraction. That's why violence in games isn't such a big deal. Point being, if someone specifically asks for a 'non-violent' game, I wouldn't recommend a game where the abstraction is explicitly attacking and killing characters.