If people were systems, this would be a short vs long term tradeoff, it's hard to find a single person that fits all those pieces but once you find them, you're

If people were systems, this would be a short vs long term tradeoff, it's hard to find a single person that fits all those pieces but once you find them, you're not going to give up easily or at all. If you are able to date multiple people you're more easily incentived to move on. That being said, people aren't systems, but it's a fun thought