> But I wonder, if you can't just open up your relationship a little bit and be polygamous, without going all in with the whole poly scene. "Polygamous" is not

> But I wonder, if you can't just open up your relationship a little bit and be polygamous, without going all in with the whole poly scene. "Polygamous" is not likely the word you were going for. Perhaps "monogamish" or "ethically non-monogamous"? Polyamory is a funky mix of Greek and Latin roots for many loves. ENM does not require love, but it can be on the menu for many; it depends solely where you (and everyone you're involved with) mutually decide to draw the lines.