I agree with you. Those kinds of questions feel awful, and it doesn’t feel great to make one up either. In the past I’ve tried to be honest and said that I don’

I agree with you. Those kinds of questions feel awful, and it doesn’t feel great to make one up either. In the past I’ve tried to be honest and said that I don’t have a particular story (or w.e they called it in the question) but that I have something that I can to a similar situation and like you suggested I would also talk about what I learned / took away from that experience.