That you're just now discovering a possible argument for traditional gender roles is a failure on your part to engage with any contrary points of view (on this

That you're just now discovering a possible argument for traditional gender roles is a failure on your part to engage with any contrary points of view (on this topic we've been hashing it over for centuries) not that those arguments are actually two word "but muh"s. You might even find that there are billions of people still living in societies with some form of traditional gender roles, and it turns out they're not all superstitious rubes!