> It is basically impossible to avoid what would, in monogamous contexts, be severe conflicts of interest. > You think that “unable to avoid your ex” is bad? N

> It is basically impossible to avoid what would, in monogamous contexts, be severe conflicts of interest. > You think that “unable to avoid your ex” is bad? Now you can’t even go to work and avoid your ex. Huh. I just realized, if we had rigid gender roles where every work place or work team was one gender, and if everyone was monogamous, cisgender, and heterosexual, those problems wouldn't happen. It would be an absurd waste to ruin so many lives (especially mine) to fix a relatively small problem, but if you think that problem is a big problem, I can see the appeal. Usually the arguments you see online for rigid gender roles and reverting feminism is weak sauce like "but homophobia" or "but religion" or "but, like, tradition"