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> In fact, polyamory often works very well for people who are married to their jobs, highly introverted, or otherwise lacking the energy for a primary relations
by pyuser583 4y ago
> In fact, polyamory often works very well for people who are married to their jobs, highly introverted, or otherwise lacking the energy for a primary relationship”
This has very much been my experience with … I’ll never call it “polyamory”, but “low intensity” relationships.
- zwkrt 4y agoAs a queer person in tech with definite introverted tendencies, polyamory is kind of perfect. Although I would be more specific and say relationship anarchy[1]. I really can’t imagine how it would work if I was straight though, there’s just so much more of a culture of being intimate friends in queer circles. I’ve got friends I would cuddle with and watch a movie, acquaintances who have seen my in my darkest moments, trysts as beneficiaries on my bank accounts, passionate lovers who I haven’t seen for years, housemates who used to date people I date now… [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy
- kalimanzaro 4y agoWow, the polyamorous people I hang out with were all kind of on the Asp-ectrum.. I kinda wondered but never made sense of that, until this article.. (I also ocasionally hang out with nontech people)
- bongoman37 4y ago