I thought the norm was ‘to get support at Google you should reach out to personal contacts there or hit the front page of HN/get a lot of retweets/otherwise bec

I thought the norm was ‘to get support at Google you should reach out to personal contacts there or hit the front page of HN/get a lot of retweets/otherwise become obvious (in a non-harassing way) to many Google employees’ so this sounds like the norm to me? Maybe we just have different views of what the norm is or what ‘the norm’ means as a phrase.