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Anecdote: (first of all, my family and I still get along fine) I was a regular happy 8 year old child who wasn't very interested in hours of homework after scho
by hnuser123456 4y ago
Anecdote: (first of all, my family and I still get along fine) I was a regular happy 8 year old child who wasn't very interested in hours of homework after school. My very academic family found this highly troubling and diagnosed me with ADD before any doctor did, as is fashion for some types. In the process of justifying this, I was given EEG scans, and quizzed by a strange man in a dark room with my parents, repeatedly asking "do you ever feel anxiety?" I did not know what this word meant, so they carefully explained to me what anxiety was, worrying about something you're not sure what the cause is, a feeling of dread, being scared of the unknown... I stumbled to say no, I have no experience of that, I can always tell what I worry about and am otherwise happy. The conversation continued essentially along the lines of "are you surrre? are you really sure?" Cue 8 years of meds which made me very anxious of failure in school and eliminated my appetite, causing my growth to nearly halt and fall within the bottom percentile of height and weight within a couple years, despite growing at a very average rate beforehand.
- anm89 4y agoI had a similar experience. I was heavily medicated by 6 or 7. Interestingly also had the same exact issues with low height and weight. I think if I hadn't forced my way off of meds around 13 I would have been permanantly stunted. I'm still shorter than almost every other male in my family but not much. I believe that I was basically a functioning meth addict for most of my childhood who thought I had never done drugs. Ironically I think the kind of thinking that decides all kids need intensive psychological screening at 8 is an example of the types of patterns for how we run our society that cause lots of people to develop anxiety issues. Or who knows, maybe we are just one bureaucratic process away from everyone finally being happy.
- BurningFrog 4y agoOPs description sounds less like "intensive psychological screening" and more like "intensive sales pitch".
- beaned 4y agoI would hate my parents for this. It sounds like you were a very normal child.